The holidays are such a special time. For us, old traditions have to be changed unwillingly, and new ones are forming. Naya was very involved with choosing and decorating our tree. This year, she isn’t here for either. So, I invited a friend to help me with the tree. Changing traditions isn’t easy, but it’s better than the alternative of yearning for something that can never be.
Driving through towns, seeing the lights in NYC and going to malls in the Philly area, I notice so much more about Christmas. It truly is a holiday for children. That may be obvious to you, but for someone who wasn’t raised in a traditional American home, it wasn’t to me. The Thanksgiving parade, songs, trees, ornaments, lights, traditions and beautiful decorations are magical. No wonder kids love Christmas! I think parents love it because it’s so magical to experience Christmas through their children. I miss the Santa wish list, the stories about each ornament going on the tree, Elf on the Shelf (although Zak will play along this year and humor me) and so much more. We will find new things and traditions that include Naya even without her physical presence.
Naya left us a couple of gifts this Christmas…
Her 6th grade classmates at Agnes Irwin had the idea to do a service project in Naya’s honor. The girls collected 325 new books to donate to CHOP’s Oncology floor. Thank you AIS. Naya would have been so proud of her beloved school and friends!
In the summer, Naya begged for a new puppy, and with Zak’s added pressure, we decided to get one. She knew he was on his way and would be here in December. She named him Sam, and saw a picture of him soon after he was born. I’ll never forget her smile when she saw that picture. We picked him up last night. I can hear her laughing as he runs around discovering the house, chews toes and plays with Gabby & Duke.
On other fronts, we’re working on several things to honor her memory and mission including establishing her foundation that will focus on her life’s missions: curing pediatric cancer, marine biology and supporting AIS. My hope is to launch in January, and start to gather your help as we carry on her mission.
Enjoy your holiday & spread the magic of the season. Laugh, smile & love.